The three little girls in the Qi family also wanted to go there very much, and they all looked at each other, but no one dared to speak.

Su Qin asked Su Yuanniang, "Sister, why don't Jingwan and the others follow you too."

Before Su Yuanniang could speak, Qi Yinzhi said with a dark face: "They don't go to such noisy and crowded places. Second sister, why didn't you listen to a single word of what I said to you in the morning?"

Su Qin felt that she was really mean, and couldn't help but feel displeased and pulled the corners of her mouth: "It's okay if you don't go. As for what my brother-in-law said in the morning, I remember everything in my heart. However, I promised two children earlier, so I naturally have to do what I say. Fame is important, but the integrity of parents in the hearts of children is also very important. Are you right?"

Qi Yinzhi had nothing to say, so he had to shake his sleeves and leave with his hands behind his back.

Su Yuanniang smiled at her apologetically and hurried to chase Qi Yinzhi.

Su Qin is very optimistic about the couple's way of getting along.

Su Yingniang leaned over and said, "Second sister, don't take it to heart. The eldest brother-in-law is a fake noble man. After he became a scholar, he always looks arrogant whenever he comes to our house, which makes people feel disgusted."

"Let me go back and wait until I get into the scholar, but I see that he will still be like this now. But I just look at the dishes and think that our Su family is not as good as their Qi family now, and everyone has to respect him. If I didn't want my elder sister to be difficult, who would have to pay attention to him!"

Su Qin glanced at her: "He is also an old scholar after all. If you please him, he might find a good marriage for you and marry a scholar or something. I may guarantee that the scholar will succeed in the future and become a high-ranking official."

Su Yingniang stamped her feet in anger: "Second sister, who do you think of me!"

She is not willing to support everyone! She also has principles!

Moreover, no matter what aspect her own brother is, she is better than Qi Yinzhi. Why should she go so far to please a brother-in-law? If someone misunderstood and thinks about something dirty, she would be disgusting to death!

Seeing that the girl was very smart, Su Qin smiled: "You can do it if you know it. Mom, you have nothing wrong with your thoughts, but whether you are a human being or a business, you must first recognize yourself. If you want to live a good life, it is more than just a way to get married."

Su Yingniang was stunned. Unexpectedly, Su Qin would suddenly tell her about this.

When she thought that her thoughts were exposed so bluntly, Su Yingniang suddenly turned her pretty face. Embarrassment and embarrassment surged into her heart, making her feel a little embarrassed and annoyed. She turned her head and wanted to leave, but she didn't want to and dared not stay with Su Qin.

Unexpectedly, Su Qin said, "If you leave, no matter what you do, I will not take you. You have already thought about it."

It was neither Su Ying's mother's departure nor staying, and she stared at her feet with her eyes.

Su Qin pulled her and asked her to get on the carriage, "I will only say these words to you. If you can listen, then you will keep them in mind. If you can't listen, it doesn't matter. After all, how you will live in the future is your own business, and no one can take care of you."

Su Yingniang didn't say anything, but sat honestly didn't move.

Su Qin felt that although this girl was very careful, she was still good in nature, so she said, "You have to remember that there is no free lunch in this world. You have to pay an equal price for whatever you want from others. No matter how good the things others give you, they belong to others. He can take them all back at any time without your consent. Only the things you earn with your own hands are truly your own, and no one can take them away. Can you understand?"

Su Yingniang could vaguely understand the meaning of this sentence, but she was only fifteen years old and could not understand it thoroughly. Knowing that Su Qin was teaching her the truth, she endured the embarrassment and asked, "Second sister, can you speak more carefully?"

Su Qin showed her a sincere smile, picked up the horse whip and swung it lightly, and the spiritual horse spread its hooves and trotted.

"Since you want to hear it, I will tell you carefully."

"My grandma, there is nothing wrong with your idea. People who don't want to live a good life are called a failure. If you want to turn your back on marriage, seriously, there is nothing wrong with it. After all, most women in this world place their future on men. This is the fate of most women and the only hope."

"But, do you think such a good life is really good? If you don't say it far away, let's just talk about my elder sister. Do you think her life is good?"

Su Yingniang thought about it carefully, nodded and shook her head: "I think my eldest sister's life was pretty good before, but since Qi Yin became a scholar, the eldest sister's face has less smiles. I think it's not very good."

Su Qin asked, "Then have you thought about why this is? Logically speaking, Qi Yin won the scholar and was the scholar's wife, but she was much more glorious than the daughter-in-law who was a scholar, but why was the eldest sister not happy?"

Su Yingniang pursed her lips: "It's because she's worried that Qi Yinzhi will take a concubine."

There is only so many things a girl who is not yet married can think of.

Su Qin smiled, "This is just one of the reasons, and of course the most important reason. Then think about it again, why should the eldest sister worry about Qi Yinzhi taking a concubine?"

Su Yingniang flattered her mouth: "Who isn't worried about her husband's acceptance? It's normal for the eldest sister to worry."

While rushing the car, Su Qin said in detail: "Yes, women will worry about this problem, but in fact, they don't have to worry."

Su Yingniang felt that this was impossible. "Once a woman gets married, she will be involuntarily in many things. Her husband wants to take a concubine, who can stop her? What's more, the eldest sister... The Qi family is determined to do that, even our Su family has no choice."

"That's just because the Su family is too weak and the eldest sister is too weak."

Su Qin no longer guided her slowly. After all, the ancients' thoughts were too big and her generation gap was too big. It was a bit unrestrained when Su Yingniang thought through it herself.

"If the Su family is more powerful than the Qi family, no, even if they are in the same position, the Qi family will not dare to take concubines easily. And if the eldest sister is capable, the Qi family will have to carefully consider the consequences of taking concubines."

Su Yingniang was stunned for a moment, and then said, "Second sister, you said this lightly, but is it realistic to let our Su family catch up with Qi family and surpass them? As for the eldest sister, it is even more impossible. She has always been so gentle and patient, and she will never change it in her life."

Su Qin smiled confidently: "What's unrealistic about this? Yang Niang, there is nothing that cannot be done in the world. If so, it only means that you are not strong enough. If you want to live a good life, marry into a good family, and not want your husband to take a concubine in the future, you must make the Su family and yourself stronger. Only by doing this will your future husband family dare not to torture and humiliate you easily. Otherwise, you will achieve your goal by relying on your younger brother or me, but the scenery you have is just the flowers and moon in the mirror, and may disappear at any time."

"I'll give you a word, my daughter should be self-reliant! As long as I do this, there will be no man in this world who dares to let you down easily."


Chapter completed!